Some People

People walk in and walk out of our life. 

Some touch our heart and some touch our soul.

Some make us strong and some make us weak. 

We want some people to stay in our life forever and sometimes we wish we haven't met certain people. 

Some people give you memories to cherish and some people give you memories you just want to forget.

Some people give you strength to move forward and sometimes its better for us to move on without certain people. 

Some people can make our life a happy place to live and certain people just add on to our sorrows.

 Our life revolves around people, no matter how much we try to avoid it. We do get influenced by the way people treat us, behave with us and act around us.

Its better that we treat people the right way just the way we want to get treated...!!!

Warning: Do Not Expect Anything

Well after so many days I am back to the place that belongs to me. So back to the main topic. When someone means to you something you automatically start to expect things from them, well its a human nature. But let me warn you do not expect anything from anyone because that expectation stabs you in your back. You are willing to give that much to the person but maybe that person never ever even thought of doing what you could have done for him/her.

Well this also goes to all the parents out there. Obviously being a parent you have a lot of expectations from your child but why burden them under your expectation. Maybe what you want for them, they don't want the same thing for themselves. You can talk to them about what you want from them, but don't force them. Leave it up to them, they'll fall, they'll stumble but then eventually they will understand that "yes, my mom or dad was right" or whatever they expect from me was good for me. " Expect less so it will hurt less."- Afreen Mhate

We need Peace...!

I am a little late to write about the most tragic incident that happened in Peshawar (Pakistan). But the pain and grief is still there even after 5 days.

Who thought that its gonna be their last day at school, kissing goodbye to their mother and waving bye to their father for the last time. The whole world is touched and grieving over the little souls that we lost. What was their mistake, what harm did these children do to anyone..? What did a mother do, for taking away her son's life.? What did a father do that he has to carry his son's coffin on his shoulder..? What was the fault of his little sister or brother. The terrorist did not only take away the lives of 132 children but also their parents, which means 396 lives lost..! And how can we forget about the teachers who lost their lives with these children. Those brave teachers who were giving  knowledge and doing their duty.
My prayers is with each and every family of the victims. May God give their family patience and strength. And lets make peace in these world so that it could be a safe place to live.

Please don't leave me.... CHOCOLATE

Today I got the most heart aching news and with a heavy heart I have to inform to all the chocolate lovers that chocolate is on the verge of extinction and by the time of 2020 there will be no chocolate left...!!! Can you believe that..? Instead of chocolate we will get palm oil and vegetable fats packed with raisins which will taste disgusting and nothing like chocolate. The reason behind this problem is that the cocoa-producing region are facing unfavorable conditions for the production of cocoa( the raw material used for producing chocolate)

I can not even imagine how we humans are even gonna survive without chocolate. What will happen to the entire mankind without chocolate..( okay I know, now I am exaggerating it a little bit.)
What will release our stress. The desserts will be incomplete without chocolate there is a saying 'If it ain't chocolate it ain't dessert," to which I totally agree. Widely celebrated festivals like valentines day, Christmas, Easter, Halloween will be incomplete and tasteless without chocolate. The icing on the cake will be tasteless for me without chocolate no cake can be called as cake. How parents will bribe their kids when there will be no chocolate. Lets just pray that the the cocoa producing regions get what they need
for the production of cocoa so that we can get enough chocolate to consume and to keep us happy..

How to tackle bullying..

We have all gone through bullying or still going through it.

There are four steps to tackle bullying.

• Do not react.
• Do not give importance to what the person said about you.
• If its going over the limit than inform it to some one elder.
• DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT HARMING YOURSELF. Cause self-harm is not an option.

I know its not at all easy to hear stuff  about oneself but just don't react to it I know you feel terrible and sad when you hear something about you, but why does it even matter to you. You are not asking for that person's opinion than don't take it. And most importantly why are you giving that much importance and value to the person who is talking crap about you. It shouldn't matter to you. Just by reacting to the person you make them feel valued.

Sometimes I just don't understand people if someone says that "you look beautiful" you won't believe it and if someone says that "you are so fat or skinny" you'll believe it easily. Really why are you doing this to yourself. Keep the negativity out of your way because today we live in a society where a lot of judging and comparing is going on. It really doesn't matter what others (those who do not know about your struggle and hardships) think about you whats important is that you have your family and couple of friends by your side and they know your value and importance. You don't need the whole world to like you or praise you to make you feel better cause just few people are enough.

KNOCK..! KNOCK...!

 Who's there..? A cat...!!!

When your time is good, life gives you what you want not only this but it gets delivered at your doorstep.

So before writing anything else I have to admit that I am a cat lover. I just love cats and wouldn't mind spending my life with dozens of cats in my house. 

 Last night I was imitating like a cat and was asking my mom if we can adopt one. And as usual her answer was no because she thinks that the cat would turn her house into a mess. So today I was preparing for my test and there was a knock on my door. It was my sister and she said that "look Afreen there is a cat" and I was like "What a cat". The cat was actually abandoned by someone next to our room. And I was like "oh poor cat, lets go in my house" but than I remembered the consequences. So I gave her a bowl of milk. At first the cat was really scared but after a little interaction it was hanging on my front door. 

And after sometime we returned the cat in safe hands, I will never forget this day as I wanted something the other night and it was in front of me in the morning even though I get to spend a little time with the cat.

A heartfull apology

I am really sorry to my readers that I haven't updated my blog since June as I was not in a state to write anything. But now I have got my hands on keyboard and feeling a little motivated to write lately. So yup now I am back with my posts.
Once again sorry for not updating my blog