How to tackle bullying..

We have all gone through bullying or still going through it.

There are four steps to tackle bullying.

• Do not react.
• Do not give importance to what the person said about you.
• If its going over the limit than inform it to some one elder.
• DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT HARMING YOURSELF. Cause self-harm is not an option.

I know its not at all easy to hear stuff  about oneself but just don't react to it I know you feel terrible and sad when you hear something about you, but why does it even matter to you. You are not asking for that person's opinion than don't take it. And most importantly why are you giving that much importance and value to the person who is talking crap about you. It shouldn't matter to you. Just by reacting to the person you make them feel valued.

Sometimes I just don't understand people if someone says that "you look beautiful" you won't believe it and if someone says that "you are so fat or skinny" you'll believe it easily. Really why are you doing this to yourself. Keep the negativity out of your way because today we live in a society where a lot of judging and comparing is going on. It really doesn't matter what others (those who do not know about your struggle and hardships) think about you whats important is that you have your family and couple of friends by your side and they know your value and importance. You don't need the whole world to like you or praise you to make you feel better cause just few people are enough.

KNOCK..! KNOCK...!

 Who's there..? A cat...!!!

When your time is good, life gives you what you want not only this but it gets delivered at your doorstep.

So before writing anything else I have to admit that I am a cat lover. I just love cats and wouldn't mind spending my life with dozens of cats in my house. 

 Last night I was imitating like a cat and was asking my mom if we can adopt one. And as usual her answer was no because she thinks that the cat would turn her house into a mess. So today I was preparing for my test and there was a knock on my door. It was my sister and she said that "look Afreen there is a cat" and I was like "What a cat". The cat was actually abandoned by someone next to our room. And I was like "oh poor cat, lets go in my house" but than I remembered the consequences. So I gave her a bowl of milk. At first the cat was really scared but after a little interaction it was hanging on my front door. 

And after sometime we returned the cat in safe hands, I will never forget this day as I wanted something the other night and it was in front of me in the morning even though I get to spend a little time with the cat.

A heartfull apology

I am really sorry to my readers that I haven't updated my blog since June as I was not in a state to write anything. But now I have got my hands on keyboard and feeling a little motivated to write lately. So yup now I am back with my posts.
Once again sorry for not updating my blog